Are you taking yourself for Granted

 YOU are the wish God grant in name of love and happiness

This life is yours to life fullest so stop torturing yourself. And live life the way you want. Always remember, you are the whole world to someone who knows the true value of you  

So stop doing the below things if you are doing any. Have confidence and keep loving yourself, if not for you for the one who wants to see you happy and lively 

Comparing yourself to others 

"They are the best and look at me just a nobody" "I am such a loser in front of them" 

Really? Have you ever think about the thing you are best in rather than thinking about others 

 In school, I always use to compare my sports skill with others and blame myself for how much I suck. Then one day my classmate asked for help in my favorite subject that was piece of cake for me.

That time it hit me how much I was neglecting myself. How much I was thinking of myself as useless rather than polishing my diamond  

We all have our own way of shining out. Stop comparing and start searching for your field, which gives your mind true peace and happiness 

You are not believing in yourself

"What am I even thinking" "how can I do this " "who am I to even think about doing this"

Who are you to think about yourself this way when God himself is believing in you. Many people lack a lot of things no one is perfect. You have to keep believing that you can be perfect that the only key to life. Start taking baby steps towards your own self. Develop faith in you. You have this life to enjoy and live fully. 

Try to understand yourself and find the reason why can't you believe yourself and start fighting against the demon why is keeping your heart in the cage 

You are giving more than receiving

"Whatever let it be" "Either way I am okay" "Who cares"

It's great to give all you have to others, to cherish others around you. But at what cost?

This earthworks on give and take relation. If you are not receiving the amount you are giving it can decrease the value of you intentionally. 

Start fighting for your rights Start showing that you deserve everything You are not there to adjust you are there to live at your fullest  and enjoy every second of life 

You can't say "no" to others

"It's okay I will do" "Yes I can do your work too"

 

What are you a potato? If you have much time to waste. Waste it on yourself. Try to find things that can easily keep you busy but happy and can make you forget the world.

Start saying 'NO' to things which your heart dispenses. Even if that ended up you losing some of the people around you but that okay because they are not true ones that only care but the work you do for them 

It's your life it's given to you to live no to be a pet of a freeloader. Don't kill your heart it will kill you and make you hate yourself more and more 

Delaying yourself for others

"okay we will do your work first" "I can adjust it's not important anyway" 

Their work is more important and I also don't have any important things in my life. Why so? Ain't you human too? If their things are important so are yours. 

Start valuing the thing, the task you have in your life. Others life will run as smoothly as it is running now. It's your life that is lacking your attention and support.

Completing your work and giving it a priority will also care sense of love and affection in you towards you and will give a feel of being alive and happy 

Have low expectation 

"what the use of doing at the end I am nobody" "why am I even bothering anyway"

You are doing things just because you have to. But why? Stop being so heartless with yourself whatever you are doing do it with whole faith and love. And see if anyone can stop you from excelling it. Completion is not the point, the point is if you are enjoying it or not.

The more you expect the more you want to struggle and have the hunger to move to excel. Which finds the hope for your heart which can only give peace to the heart. 

It's just the game of faith and trust. Learn how to ace the game and everything will be in your hands. Because you can do everything you want if you trust yourself 

You lie to yourself 

"I don't care who love or who don't " "it's not like I want to be the center of attraction"

You always feed yourself with all the lies that you don't care and you don't need others or if someone is showing care you always assume that they are there for some reason or they want something from you.

You feed yourself with lies and deny the fact that you can be loved and cared for by anyone.

But the truth is everyone wants attention, everyone loves to be praised so, so do you.

 If you want attention work for it don't sulk over not getting any, try to earn the love and respect rather than assuming you are not deserving of love and care 

Because you have every right to get everything that others have, it's just you have to keep believing in yourself and keeping moving to win the race

Are you doing any of these things to yourself? If you ever felt the phase do share your experience with us. And always remember 

No one will value you till you don't value yourself ❤