How to fight against insecurities

Let's Kill The Insecurities 

It's okay to have fears but don't let the fears kill you

Everyone has insecurities, it's just the way you handle and accept them that make you special and unique. It's not something one should be shameful of, as it's easy to get rid of them if you accept them fully. Insecurities are not something you should keep with forever, it's something one should get rid of as soon as possible. 

Few steps might help you 

Accept them without any hesitation 

Why to is shame in accepting flaws if you can talk about your achievements publicly, So why can't you talk and accept them fully

If you accept your insecurities with open arms they also give you a chance to understand them and a chance to know why and when you get them. Like a one on one talk to another person try to talk to your insecurities and accept them, you will feel lighter and you get to know how and what you should do to overcome them 

If you don't accept them they won't stop hunting you like an angry ghost but if you try to accept them they might feel like a one-time nightmare only 

Tell your trusted one about it and let them help you 

No matter how low or how childish your insecurities are, try to talk them out with others who might help you get rid of them

Tell your trusted ones how you are feeling and what's haunting you without any fear. It's never about how serious and how big your problem is, a problem is always a problem it doesn't have any size or level. So vent them out and let others help you 

Sometimes having someone to care for you or just the thought that there is someone who is worrying about you can do miracles. You just have to trust and let the miracle happen. Which we can't achieve alone, can be archived with the help of others 

Keep distancing from one who mocks you 

You know what you're lacking and what you have, you don't need others to tell you again and again about it. Accepting the flaws and letting the flaws kill you are different things 

If someone is constantly mocking you, reminding you what you are lacking, or is playing to help you to overcome your insecurities but is hurting you behind these are the ones you should stop contacting as soon as you can

Because constant remark and looking at your insecurities can make them a never healing wound. And it will only feed their ego and pride if you keep in touch with them it will only kill your inner self till the end 

Keep telling your worth to yourself

You can have thousands of insecurities but there must be if not many, at least a single thing you love or adore about yourself. And if you can't point out at that hidden gem of your let you love ones help 

Once you know about that keep reminding yourself about that and try to improve that in yourself. Try to focus on that good side and let the insecurities feel small in front of that gem of your 

Develop hobbies to give new space to your mind

The more you think about things the more they affect you. So, in this case, why, to give your mind time to think about the insecurities and feed it will all the new and nice hobbies and interest 

The more you spent time in the development of good and happy things, the more your mind gets occupied with the new and happy things, and the less it focuses on the insecurities and the negative things and it also helps you to know your strength and  happiness

Learn to control emotions and don't get played by them 

Our emotions play a vital part in our life. The more you let your emotions affect you the more you will feel weak and helpless because we don't only have positive emotions we also have negative ones. 

So make sure not to let any emotion control you either positive or negative as they are part of you, you are not part of them. And controlling is the way of only negative and scary things, nothing positive wants to control anyone so are the emotions 
The more you let emotions control you the more they will make you remind your insecurities and those insecurities will make you feel negative 

And you will be stuck with a never-ending loop 

Keep challenging yourself 

You can't overcome all the insecurities just be reading good or listening good, you have to challenge yourself to develop a better you and a fearless you 

Just because others are helping you or you are not thinking about the negative thoughts doesn't mean they are not into you. You have to kill all the insecurities by becoming the better version of you 

The more you want to be better the more the flaws find themselves getting smaller and smaller 

Keep pushing yourself for the betterment and keep fighting with all the insecurities. Sure it will take time but they will go for a better and happy life 

Do you guys have any insecurities? If have any, do you find this post helpful? do tell in the comment box. And remember 

No one is flawless, some just know how to fight & some let their guards down without any fight