Are you lacking your own self?

Signs you need more of you in yourself

Its only you who can make yourself happy

Nowadays, its becoming tread of being all happy,sexy,loving over the internet.We all post happy photos,share happy post.

But the question is how many of us are showing true happiness or are feeling the same as we are showing on social sites 

Lets  try to feel true happiness,Lets try to meet the 'YOU' which you lost while living in this internet life.

Lets first face the problem you are run from.

Having difficulty in prioritizing your own need and feeling 

You are not Cinderella your life is not some Disney movie.It's your life and you should make it as you want.Stop being pullover of someone 

Try to listen to yourself, think of yourself first.If you are not liking any thing just say "I dont want to" or leave it as it is.

Once you do what you want and start showing it others will also get attracted by you without any need or favor.

Just doing what others like to do and ignoring yourself is the biggest sign that you are neglecting yourself and killing yourself in name of gaining others love 

Its not normal to kill yourself for others.Stop favoring others feeling and killing yours 

 

Being afraid by thought of left alone 

You choose what others are likely to choose.Why? Because the thought of choosing or standing on other page make you feel anxious and horrified.

Its okay to have different thoughts then others.You are not weird you are simply unique and amazing.

If you want to go left rather than right Go left and enjoy yourself in your chosen journey because if you choose right rather than left you can physically be there but your heart will be where it wants.

And you will be left alone with people around you without any soul

Rather than having hundred people around you choose to have your heart with you always 

You cant protect or defend yourself 

If you are being bullied,you are being insulted but still you can't say a word or you think it will end soon.

"Never"

You always want to shout "stop it " to all the unjust thinks you are going through but can't.Why? 

Because you don't have trust in yourself you don't listen to yourself you feel inferior and don't know how to speak your thought out loud 

All these are not normal.Stop seeing yourself as victim try to start having faith in yourself.

Start believing in your heart and say the things your heart wants.Stand for your own self ,if you wont no one will .

Feeling inferior in front of others 

'Look at there skin, there dressing sense.They get all i got nothing.' Seeing yourself as nothing or feeling like you are only wrong one in room.Stop normalizing these thoughts 

Just remember we all are equal and we all deserve each and every happiness the earth have. You are not inferior they are not superior. The only difference is they know how to love and cherish themselves and they know who they are and what they want.

 So stop coping others and start finding your own heart 

You are as much lovable and confident as others are we all are human.You also have everything others have.Try to find the things in yourself

Tends to rely on others opinion more than yours 

You think 'You don't know what to choose.' 'Cant find the right thing for yourself or anyone.'

So you try to ask others and relay on there choice rather than your. 

Ever ask why so? If they can choose and trust there choice why can't you. You have everything they have its just matter of trust you don't have

If you can trust there choice then you can your too.

Built trust in yourself.Right or Wrong it doesn't matter the thing which matter is that it is what your heart wants.Trust is key of any relation.

So to develop your relation with yourself trust yourself and don't think about consequence,think about the relief and joy your heart will get after relying on yourself

 

Avoid seeing or capturing yourself 

'Wish i can have flawless and attractive pictures like him/her.' 'Why can't I have a single good picture of my self?' 'Why this camera or this world hates me this much?'

Nothing is special in them,Nothing is wrong with you.Even you are more beautiful than them

 Its just the fact that you are being blind on your own self. You are the source of light itself so let your heart lead you and start dancing on the tune of your heart.

World will look pretty and You will be the prettiest them all 

Think about what you don't like about yourself try to correct that thing not to avoid that thing.Try to be kind to yourself first.

If few pictures is not good doesn't mean you are not good.

You are the gold itself which just need a bit polishing of self love and self trust 

Easily saying sorry or feeling guilty

'I must have done something wrong.' 'I shouldn't have said that thing'.'I deserve all the hate.'

 But Why? Why you are the wrong one why can't others can do anything wrong?

It is not you who is wrong doer.Its just the faith you are lacking in yourself. Don't think about what others say,think about what your own inner self is saying.

And remember you are not jinx you are the most beautiful and most lovable person 

Everyone makes mistakes no one is perfect you just have to remind yourself that you are not some garbage bag you are a human too

You are as precious as others are and stop feeling guilty because you did nothing wrong and can never do anything wrong cause you are the angel who is not aware of its inner self

Not feeling confident or capable of doing things 

'I can't do that.Only an intelligent person can do'.'How can someone like me can even think about doing this.'

But dear  

You are as capable and as perfect as others are.There is nothing which others can do but you don't and even you can do things more gracefully than others. Just a little bit of love and focus in yourself.And you can win the world itself 

The thing which is stopping you from doing anything is not world or others its you yourself.You just have to be faithfully and follow the lead of your heart rather than stopping and looking down on it.

So what about you do you have faith in yourself? Do tell if you have any of the said things in you?

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